The answer to 'which is better wasp or bee' is that bees are generally a better choice than wasps for homeowners. Bees are typically less aggressive and less likely to sting unless provoked, while wasps can be more prone to unprovoked stinging. Bees also play an important role in pollination and are generally considered beneficial insects, while wasps are more likely to be viewed as pests.
That said, both bees and wasps can pose risks to homeowners, especially those with allergies. It's important to be cautious around nests or hives of either insect and to avoid disturbing them if possible. If you do have a wasp or bee issue on your property, it's generally best to call a professional pest control technician who can safely remove the nest or hive.